Henceforth No gal shall durst say that there has never been a girl code established for i hath wrought one here <----------------
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So do you girls ever get that urge to just “Holler back, when your hollered at !”
This is definitely a no-no in a girls plan when trying to execute a cutie. A girl must show patience, because we all know we need it when dealing with boys. Most importantly, when meeting a guy, we need to show them our unavailability to build a desire from both ends. If for some reason you show your guy that you are always there when he wants you then that leaves him no room, to actually WANT YOU BAD ! Though some girls don’t agree with this time span, I believe it is the most affective when in a relationship, or simply entering one.
TELL ME HOW LONG WOULD YOU WAIT ? <- click the question mark!
- Thou shall not invite a male figure, when out and about on a gal’s day/night out.
Its a sure thing that girls love being around boys, but do they always have to be around?
For the past few weeks one of my close friends has been experiencing her first few stages in her relationship (PUPPY LOVE), which BTW is super cute. However she doesn’t seem to understand how to separate quality time with the girlfriends, and the boyfriend. She has been invited several times to girl outings yet she still brings her lover along! Grrrrr. My girl disciples and I accepted this move the first few times, but now its time for us to speak up.
There are certain things a girl likes to talk about when she spends time with the girlfriends. They also prefer not to have boys around when having our discussions because if they are it wouldn’t be considered a Girl’s Night Out, it would be something like a “Gathering of People”.
Ladies if you have a boyfriend and you don’t want to leave him home, please make sure to ask your friends if he can tag along. It’s nerve-wrecking to have the opposite specie lounging around during OUR down time !
I have chosen this GUY CODE website to show you visitors the differences between a girl code and a guy code. You can obviously tell that the guy code is more about protecting your masculinity in comparison to the guidelines of the girls, which focus on maintaining healthy relations. AND if you dont want to read through ALL of their “guidelines” then simply click PLAY on the nutshell video ! Enjoy girls.
- Thou shall not borrow items of clothing without permission unless both parties have agreed on waiving thy rule in context of companionship.
It is irritating to go into your closet looking for an specific item and not being able to find it ! Then you start wondering where did you leave it ? Put it? Drop it? A few days pass and you decided to ask your friend who just happens to fit into all of your clothe. My personal problem is not missing clothe, but even more annoying, accessories. I have always been the “skinny friend” which saves me from sharing my clothe with my girls, but my jewelry box is constantly empty because of my friends bad habits- taking and not returning.
Therefore my suggestion to you is, ASK FOR IT ! It will be given to you, and please RETURN IT ! ….. as it was when you took it. It would be nice to reuse the things you let your girls borrow.
It is thou womanly right to give dirty looks.
What do you consider a dirty look ?
- To me a dirty look is when you make actually make the eye contact with the person looking at you and you can actually hear the negative, and hating commentary going through their heads as they stare - JD
What is your reaction when giving a dirty look?
- My automatic reaction when I am given a dirty look is to give one right back. Although this often starts a “starring contest” or in other cases altercations, it is a reaction that takes over my mind. When people talk negatively about me, it bothers me because its my reputation they are working on. To think negatively about me is fine, but the facial expression is unnecessary. - KH
How often do you get dirty looks?
-I would say maybe 2 a week that I know about. But hey ! Who knows with all these haters. - NW
How often do you give dirty looks?
-I must admit I probably give 1 dirty look a week. But then again it depends on why Im giving a dirty look. For the right reasons I’ll give a dirty look all day, but I try my best to keep my dirty looks to a minimum because it a dirty look can elevate the situation beyond its problem. - DT
Why do you give dirty looks?
- I swear every girl gives dirty looks because of jealousy. Most girls wont admit it, but when you see your boy’s new girlfriend thats an automatic DIRTY LOOK! or When that girl is wearing that outfit that you think is okay but she’s definitely not rocking it, that’s another certified DIRTY LOOK. So there is a lot of reasons to give a dirty look. - AK
When was the last time you gave/receieved a dirty look?
Last time I gave a dirty look was today. I swear I didn’t mean to but my friends always tell me about my “mean muggin face” and how it is always visible during the time I scan people. So today I received a dirty look and gave one right back thinking she initiated, when in reality she thought I was giving her a dirty look, however I wasn’t. I was just looking at her cute jeans ! - AR
- Thou shall ask permission from thy friend to date her sibling.
So, what do we do to prevent our desperate brothers from hooking up with your best friends? NOTHING
A friend should understand the problems that can rise from dating a person intensively close to your friendship. Having a hot brother can be cool at times but annoying (as always). When your friends become interested in your siblings they begin to forget about the values their friendship has. Instead of coming over for a girlfriends sleep over, your friend now comes over to show your brother her hawt new pajamas.
Once they begin to date, she continues to use you and your friendship to keep tabs on him, and it evolves from comfortable fun nights, to awkward annoyance from both people who you are close to.
At the end of the “foolery” between your brother and best friend, you might find yourself in a pickle ! Choosing sides, and dealing with a best friend whose heart was shattered by your bro.
GIRL AMENDMENT # 2
- Thou shall not diss a friend’s boyfriend. Just lightly agree with the bashing the girlfriend generates during her annoyed, and sad times in the relationship
We friends are often put in tight situations when trying to help out a friend during the time they need emotional support. The bashing that you create as a friend towards her boyfriend can be taken either in a negative or positive way. Over all you should avoid being caught in the middle of a relationship situation because a third wheel never wins. No one outside the two in a relationship know what happens behind closed doors, therefore you should never judge a friends’ relationship. When a friend is verbally attacking her mate you should show support in the areas she asks for, considering her feeling towards the boy who is momentarily giving her a hard time.
- Thou shall never in any case date a friend’s ex boyfriend, or a guy one of your friend is in to.
We spend hours talking to our friends about our lovers, and the guys that we have crushes on expecting a friends support/opinion. However, in certain friendship situations friends or past friends who are “in” on your love life secrets BACKSTAB you, and hook up with the people that mean the most (at the moment) to you.
Is that cute kid really worth your friendship ? He might be handsome and nice but he’s a sloppy second. The experience you chose with him will forever be awkward with your friend, its pointless.
THEREFORE, FRIEND’S EXES ARE OFF LIMITS.
Friendships are powerful and can affect a person in two ways positive andnegative. Befriending in a girl’s world can be a long process, because of trust issues with past pals or insecurities. That is why a set of girl codes should be established and followed by all females that enjoy their girlfriends. However one must chose wisely when in search for a friend, to avoid negative characteristics such as “shadiness” and betrayal. Future post will consist of guidelines girls should follow to have or maintain a healthy friendship. If any of these codes are broken, punishments should consist of lots of bitching from fellow female friends, and cold shoulders for tops 3 days!
Detect a bad friend —->
The link on this post is an article explaining a study on the several types of “bad friends”.
